1 10 21 https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/1a9bc8c8f5f58e339ccb1d7558f2dcd8 1c54606d1e7bad531cec74b8a5774cb0 Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Tattoo Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource You are Loved Tattoo Subject The topic of the resource Tattoo Art Memorial LGBTQ people Parental Grief Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Black script of “You are Loved” on the inside of wrist. “It was cathartic. I was very intentional in what I chose the tattoo to say. It means, it’s kinda two-fold: to this child that I never got to know, you are loved … But also ((crying)) to me.” Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in Reproductive Losses Research Project Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2012 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lang, Ella Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource In copyright Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Language A language of the resource eng Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context You are Loved Tattoo_01 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Commemorative Tattoos https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/97d2c18681ca4a22a9c68df4ae3dfc30.jpg e694366dd6cb1b04eea29c03147e454f Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Wallaby in Hebrew Tattoos Subject The topic of the resource Tattoo Art Autobiographical memory Wallabees LGBTQ people Parental Grief Description An account of the resource Two arms intertwined with matching tattoos of the Hebrew transliteration of the letters “V-V-L-B-Y” for Wallaby, which is what they called their unborn baby. “A friend of ours, upon seeing it (because handwritten Hebrew can be so subjective), said: ‘Before reading that it was ‘Vallabee,’ I read it as: ‘oo-levei,’ or, ‘of my heart.’ That always made me happy too.” Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2007 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lane-Davies, Hannah Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright</a>. Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Language A language of the resource heb Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Wallaby in Hebrew Tattoos_01 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/f488e5ce8d9ee3867deaf4174a87c4c4.jpg aa18053572e942bfc3facade53047677 Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Card Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource To deny our grief is to deny our love Subject The topic of the resource Birth announcements LGBTQ people Lesbian mothers Parental Grief Sorrow Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Birth announcement with purple orchids sent to family and friends by a lesbian couple. It reads: "To deny our grief is to deny our love—for we loved her way before she was here … Thank you for sharing in our joy when we were expecting [our daughter] And for sharing in the sorrow of losing our little girl. We hurt knowing that she never got to see how many people were looking forward to meeting and loving her." The words to the song “You are my Sunshine” are printed on the reverse. “The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping I dreamed I held you in my arms But when I awoke, dear, I was mistaken And I hung my head and I cried You are my sunshine, my only sunshine You make me happy when skies are grey You'll never know, dear, how much I love you Please don't take my sunshine away” Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 02-2011 Language A language of the resource eng Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context To deny our grief is to deny our love_01 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lang, Ella Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="https://rightsstatements.org/page/InC/1.0/?language=en">In copyright </a> Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource pdf Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant Birth and Death Announcements https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/6d91de3845aa24804b01c7b476cbe7e5.jpg 4cdfddc35ff472904560f6a27fbcb57b Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Stars & Moon Foot Tattoo Subject The topic of the resource Tattoo Art Moon Memorial LGBTQ people Parental Grief Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Tattoo in black ink on top of foot, a constellation of stars on an infinity symbol with a sun and moon on either side with the Latin words for “Let your light shine” in script “luceat lux vestra.” “I needed to do something to memorialize [my losses] so I have a tattoo on my foot that has an infinity symbol: three stars and the infinity, a sun and a moon for the two children I have that are living, and the Latin phrase “let your light shine.” I went by myself. My best friend helped me put it together and the artist did her part with it, but I went by myself and I-, it was one of those things—it sounds odd—but I needed something painful, something that physically hurt to close this [pain]. So [for my most recent loss] there’ll be another star at some point in the next couple months before we try again.” Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in Reproductive Losses Research Project Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2010 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lane-Davies, Hannah Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright</a>. Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Language A language of the resource lat Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Stars & Moon foot tattoo_01 Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/00e7f0ada299d5c8ef6637db6015c243.JPG 8c95fdf96765d42512ad3a0bd07d6189 https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/38cc88c0198979fd145d27e6cc29b0ab.JPG 8c95fdf96765d42512ad3a0bd07d6189 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Quilt Patch for Family Tree Quilt Subject The topic of the resource Quilts Butterflies LGBTQ people Parental Grief Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Photo of a quilt patch with a blue and purple butterfly and the text “Oren Jasper 4-19-12” (name included with permission), created by a non-gestational mother's family members .  See also the couple's Free Library, created in honor of their two sons. “[Because I carried our child,] I think it often gets overlooked that he was [my partner’s] son too and that makes me really sad. But one of her family members really got it. Her grandmother has an enormous quilt on her wall, and it has the family tree on it. They put Oren on the family tree as [my partner’s] son. They got that he was her son too.” Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2012 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lane-Davies, Hannah Language A language of the resource eng Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Quilt Patch for Family Tree Quilt_01 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Project Relation A related resource http://www.lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/items/show/16 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright.</a> Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Physical Memorials https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/68e7c73c0effcd873de9e96449761b23.jpg 6bdbbfdd9e3cbd8b8f7b01a16485318a Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Photo Physical Dimensions The actual physical size of the original image Digital 3861 × 2574 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Nursery Butterflies, Murphy-Craven Home, 2010 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Doneson, Arielle Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Craven, Christa Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpg, 3861 × 2574 Subject The topic of the resource Butterflies Nurseries Parental Grief Lesbian Mothers Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Photo of multicolor silk butterflies on a clear string in a tangerine colored room. "This string of butterflies hangs in our twins' bedroom to honor our first daughter Lily's presence in our lives. We had initially bought it for Lily’s nursery a few weeks before she left us. Although the meaning behind this commemoration is primarily for our immediate family and a close circle of friends, we were struck by this photograph that our friend, fine art photographer Arielle Doneson, snapped when she took photos of our twins a few months after they were born. This image became a comfort for both of us, especially in the absence of more tangible memories of Lily, like pictures or personal items, which many of us don't have following pregnancy loss. As I did research for this project I learned that butterflies are a common symbol that bereaved parents use to commemorate losses. The multiple colorful butterflies also reminded us of the rainbow pride flag, which seemed fitting since our twins were our 'rainbow babies,' a term I learned from other bereaved parents that is often used to describe children born after pregnancy loss. I sometimes joke that we actually have 'double rainbow babies,' born after we lost Lily and into a queer family." Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 10-26-2010 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Presented with permission from Arielle Doneson. <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In Copyright.</a> Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Wooster, Ohio Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Butterflies 01 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Craven, Christa Relation A related resource <a href="http://www.lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/admin/items/show/40" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Cover for Reproductive Losses (Craven 2019)</a> https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/c8b3cf8fd08ef6439c2e1fc8b5cae8f4 4136fe6253e9b3c2992a61c04926a27a https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/1dfcf8a7ea0640e8d90565d04752e38f d7eb68f57a4208e394279930d611694a https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/a59c4dbf11767600585c120efa023864 d90678bb1881274af76e06c472fd4d32 https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/7dca6736ca63539c996116b8c803c3bf a160995726beaa206e092a2582cc88e5 Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Wooden box with assorted objects inside Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Memory Box with Remembrance Bowl, Urn with Stillborn Daughter’s Ashes, and Written Sentiments from Loved Ones Description An account of the resource Photos of a memory box and its contents, created by a queer couple in honor of their stillborn daughter. “A carpenter [made the memory box] and we got it less than two weeks after we lost her. It’s this beautiful box ... and we found a tiny urn. We still have her ashes in the box in the urn. We got a bowl and we had ten people at her memorial, and we had everybody bring a stone or some little thing that they wanted to contribute and they all put the things in the bowl. So, we have this bowl with [the] energy and things that people bought, which is really beautiful and we had extra little cards printed that people wrote on. [Her partner continued] Everybody brought something to read, and a lot of people were into literature so they brought poetry or excerpts from fiction, some theory—Judith Butler made several appearances ((all laughing)). [Returning to the first speaker] We both wrote things to read that day. It was here at the house, and all of those things are in her box and our ultrasound photos, the photos we took of her after she passed ... all in the box. It was exactly a month after the loss that we had the memorial, and it was sort of like a turning point of the crisis feeling, I feel like that really began our actual grieving process, which was a good thing.” Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lang, Ella Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright.</a> Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Memory Box with Remembrance Bowl, Urn with Stillborn Daughter’s Ashes, and Written Sentiments from Loved Ones_01 Subject The topic of the resource Wooden boxes Stillbirth Autobiographical memory LGBTQ people Parental Grief Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2011 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Language A language of the resource eng Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participants in Reproductive Losses Research Project Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Physical Memorials https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/9efe26d0fcabac2661e7a375b5797e0f.jpeg 498a714f1d33256862d62c5a42524f6f Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Description An account of the resource Sketch and photograph of upper arm tattoo, the Buddhist figure Jizo in a red robe with children in the folds, releasing a yellow butterfly from his hand. "In 2010, 6 years after my only child, Nia, was stillborn, I designed this tattoo based on the myth/story of the Japanese bodhisatva, Jizo. The story is that he is the guardian of children who die before their parents. There are statues of him all over Japan. It’s an amazing story- I encourage you to look it up- it’s more than I can include here. The yellow butterfly represents my daughter- as Jizo sets her free." Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 27, 2004 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Jodi Murphy Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Nia’s Mommy, Jodi Murphy Subject The topic of the resource Tattoo Art Bodhisatva Memorial Parental Grief LGBTQ people Autobiographical memory Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of Jodi Murphy Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource In copyright, https://rightsstatements.org/page/InC/1.0/?language=en Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpg Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Jizo tattoo_01 Title A name given to the resource Jizo & Butterfly Tattoo https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/7613a4974859f4eb029ab30e5e2bc833.jpg 709c2fceab244aab8b4045b215f7a8b6 Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Iris on Back Tattoo Subject The topic of the resource Tattoo Art Memorial Botanical Illustration LGBTQ people Parental Grief Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Tattoo of single iris sketched in black ink that covers the full length of one mother’s back in remembrance of she and her partner’s daughter. Her partner was pregnant when she had gotten the tattoo and planned to get the same image after breastfeeding. “We got a lot of flowers and stuff [after we lost our child,] but a close friend who lives out of state sent us a dozen long stemmed blue irises the day after we lost her and that [became] her flower. So, the invitations to the memorial had an iris on them, and that’s the tattoo. Irises became very symbolic for us.” “We both would ultimately like to get the iris tattoo. [My partner] got it [on her back] right before I got pregnant, and so I plan on getting it after I finish breastfeeding [our second child].” Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2011 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lane-Davies, Hannah Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="https://rightsstatements.org/page/InC/1.0/?language=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright.</a> Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Language A language of the resource eng Type The nature or genre of the resource Still Image Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Iris on Back_01 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in Reproductive Losses Research Project Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant https://lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/403438803ed8f2ab5719ed9d80a70572.jpg c4e4a4b5faa95aaf89483a169b79e0c4 Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource In loving memory of my beautiful and perfect baby boy Subject The topic of the resource Birth Announcement Poetry Memorial LGBTQ people Parental Grief Autobiographical memory Description An account of the resource Birth announcement sent by a single lesbian mother following the birth of her eight-month-old son, Samuel (whom she asked me to name). See also her 2nd Birthday video message. In loving memory of my beautiful and perfect baby boy Conceived on May 8th, 2010 Flew away with the angels on January 10th, 2011 Was born sleeping on January 11th, 2011 Was due on February 7th, 2011 … I will forever be proud of my beloved son, Your existence inside me gave me the happiest and most wonderful 8 months of my life. I am grateful we shared so much during the short time we had together. My life will never be the same again. Thank you Samuel, I will miss you so much, ti amo pulciacchiotto, La tua mamma Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 02-02-2011 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lane-Davies, Hannah Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright</a>. Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource pdf Language A language of the resource eng ita Type The nature or genre of the resource Birth and Death Announcements Still Image Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context In loving memory of my beautiful and perfect baby boy_01 Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant |3|0.0000000|0.0000000|osm Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant